Peerless Life in Allston Rock City

Peerless Life in Allston Rock City Allston is a thickly settled multi-generational, multi-cultural Boston neighborhood off the Mass Pike. It's a student ghetto, situated on the 57 and 66 bus routes, and the B train from Boston College to Boston University to Kenmore (Red Sox territory), and onward into Park Street, where you can change trains and get pretty much anywhere you want to go. Lower Allston, or "LA" so dubbed by its genial citizenry, is a comparatively qu…

Ode To Star Market (2002)

Ode To Star Market (2002) This was a poem that I wrote in 2002 about the insanity that is the Porter Square shopping center parking lot. It's chaos all the time. The poem, such as it is (I'm no poet) had an original title of  Ode to Star Market (How I Did Not Get Sushi Last Night And Made This Up In The Car On The Way Home). Ode To Porter Square Star Market Star sells sushi a la carte, that's why I'm bound to go there Otherwise I stay away from Supermarket Ni…

Straddling the Great Digital Divide

Straddling the Great Digital Divide What I love most about being a true blue Gen X'er is our passage from analog to digital. There's something comforting in the shared experience of taking a flying leap together across a great technological chasm. From Etch-A-Sketch to iPad, from wall-tethered telephones to iPhones. Technology moved fast during our lifetime. We climbed the mountain, we surfed the wave, we sped along the information superhighway with all the windows open. …

Music Makers and Dreamers of Dreams

Music Makers and Dreamers of Dreams When I was 24 years old, I found it necessary to retract and re-submit my * theory about musicians and just what the hell is their deal anyway. This happened all in my head, in the high seats at Foxboro Stadium at approximately 8 o’clock on May 20, 1994. My theory? Please note, I was a wee bit baked, and Pink Floyd, on the Boston stop of the Division Bell tour, had just opened with Astronomy Domine, from their tragically underrated 1966 album Pi…

Trigger Warning: F*cking Guns

Trigger Warning: F*cking Guns In the wake of yet another senseless mass shooting, social media has erupted in the expected din, self-righteous advocates on both sides of a hot button issue feverishly posting their little hearts out. It's a futile loudness war fought online with Tweets and memes and platitudes flying high, nobody winning and nobody backing down. Candlelight vigils, thoughts and prayers. Fuck the candles. Ban the guns.

This time it's Joey who's got jury duty

This time it's Joey who's got jury duty ♯ Joey was already gone when I woke up. Jury duty -- that shit starts early. He brought a book. It's Mel Torme's tell-all, The Other Side of the Rainbow: Behind the Scenes on the Judy Garland Television Series.  Because of course it is. I got him that book from someone online. It's actually an old library book, so at first he thought we had to return it to the library. "You mean I get to keep this?" Yeah, baby! It's your…

It's A Miracle: Boy George. Cyndi Lauper, and Remembering an Old Friend

It's A Miracle: Boy George. Cyndi Lauper, and Remembering an Old Friend Pam had an extra ticket to see Cyndi Lauper and Boy George at the Wang Theatre. Guess who got to go? ME. That kind of thing never happens to me. Thanks, Pammeke! And thanks, person-who-couldn't-make-it-whose-seat-I-took! First of all, I love The Wang. It's one of those right proper old art deco theatres. You know, decked out with red velvet and gold trim, ceiling paintings, sculptural detail and fancy chandeliers. It opened in the 1920s …

Welcome to Allston

Welcome to Allston This is a building you see as you enter Allston coming off the Mass Pike. The windows have been closed up for years, and murals painted in. The sky looked so clear, the building stood out like a mirage. The top right triptych depicts Mr. Butch. More on Mr. Butch at some other time. All the feelz.

Well, what a week.

Well, what a week. Yesterday, your outpouring of well-wishes for my 46th trip around the sun? Astonishing it is anew, how did I cross paths with so many rare and wonderful people? Plus my husband Joe Kowalski ? Honestly guys? That's why I'm making a video blog about him-- because he's somethin' else, man, and I have the best seat in the house and I just wanna share that with you. Plus family, which I'm more grateful for as the years go by …

Dirty Sweet 'N You're My Girl (Eulogy For An Awesome Chick)

Dirty Sweet 'N You're My Girl (Eulogy For An Awesome Chick) Genine was a high school friend. Brief, bright and deep, that was our love, from about mid-freshmen year to the summer of junior year. I wish I could find my goddamn yearbook so I could see what we wrote into the blurbs on each others' pages at graduation. Was it "remember when we..." and was it promises to keep in better touch? It's things like that you grasp for, when you find out a one-time friend is gone.

Reflections? Me, my turn? Oh, um...where to start...

Reflections? Me, my turn? Oh, um...where to start... Feels at once, somehow, like a slog of marathon and a brief page flip. Let's sum up: 2015 was a rebuilding year. I've learned what an incredible man my husband Joe Kowalski really is, and I've learned how lucky I am that so, so many of you are truly real friends. I can't begin to even express...what can I even say, you guys rallied and saved my life. That's real. I've learned about mental illness and self-respect. 2016&#…

Just when I decide to write more and Facebook less...

Just when I decide to write more and Facebook less... ...a friend I never see gets the cutest puppy in the world.

Generation X Problems

When I was little I demanded to know why Goofy wears clothes and talks, but Pluto goes bare and makes dog sounds. Can you DO that? Can you have two dogs in one franchise and only one is anthropomorphic? Were they ever in a scene together? What does Goofy have to say to Pluto?

That's Not A Hoverboard

That's Not A Hoverboard Why is everyone calling those two-wheel things "hoverboards?" Roll. No hover. We're just calling shit whatever now? Then I didn't get a Mazda 3 Zipcar and go to Target to find a new trash can. I got a spacebuggy and went to Narnia to find a Horcrux. You can't just say stuff is other stuff when it clearly isn't.

Cardullo's Has Torrones!

Cardullo's Has Torrones! Do you know this box? For the un-initiated, this is a box of Italian nougat candies. They come in lemon, orange and vanilla. In our house, mom placed them on the Christmas tree along with the candy canes and popcorn balls. Torrone is individually boxed. I used to wrap the individual boxes (after I ate the candy) in bits of wrapping paper because they were just the right size for the Barbie Dreamhouse.

Recipe: Loaded Potato Chowder

Recipe: Loaded Potato Chowder I whipped up this decadent soup the other night, making it up as I went along -- that's usually how I approach soup-making -- but this one came out so good that I've got to write it down. Sorry, it's not for vegans nor Atkins people. This is a hearty, fatty winter soup that's a stick-to-your-ribs meal in a bowl. You non-bacon, non-dairy, no-carb guys might live a few years longer, but then again, you don't get to have this s…

Throwback Thursday: 2007

Throwback Thursday: 2007 Related: WII Cook, WII Eat, WII Drink, WII WII Related: Christmas 2007: Part the Second...Dog Days