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Showing posts with label Fathers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fathers. Show all posts

Happy Father's Day

Happy Father's Day Happy Father's Day to all the cool dads out there. It's been such an honor to watch your kids grow up through pictures and posts. Good job, guys. On this day I like to share this 2012 blog entry titled "Any Other Sunday: On Fathers."

You Have Got To Be Fucking Kidding Me (My Family Really Puts The Fun In Dysfunction)

You Have Got To Be Fucking Kidding Me (My Family Really Puts The Fun In Dysfunction) Can't say I saw this one coming, guys. I found out the other day that my stepfather has a daughter. My stepfather has a daughter.  It would appear that, apparently, I am the last to know that Louie fathered a daughter before he met my mom. And The Daughter's  half-sister reached out to me over Facebook last night. It was in a post about Louie's old store, The Karmel Korn Shop. I posted: "Do you guys think you can post any memories …

My Father I Haven't Met: Meet Ralph

My Father I Haven't Met: Meet Ralph I see a family resemblance to the 20-year old guy on the far right.  That's my actual father, Ralph Onofrio. This band was called The Beret Trio, he's the drummer.  Here's me at eighteen. What do you think, am I an Onofrio?

Thank you for your service, and your sacrifice: Grandpa DiPoala

Thank you for your service, and your sacrifice: Grandpa DiPoala The family is not close-knit. No one spoke of my grandfather James DiPoala; I was never told about his life, his years in service nor anything about him or his personality. All I knew growing up was that Grandpa DiPoala was "shell shocked" in the parlance of his time, and the reason he didn't live at home with Grandma was that he'd become violent then deteriorated to the point where he no longer recognized her or his child…

The Invention of Mothers: What About Your Husband?

The Invention of Mothers: What About Your Husband? "You need to give him children. What are you scared of? Responsibility?"  These are actual words said to me yesterday. By a total stranger. In the park. It's astonishing to me that anyone feels entitled to lecture women about something so personal. I am 47 years old. It is 2017. Are you freakin' kidding me . Yesterday's Child-demander I took a walk with my sketchbook. I got a kale smoothie and stopped on a park bench. People w…

If It Ain't One Thing It's Your Mother

If It Ain't One Thing It's Your Mother Today is my mom's birthday! I called her first thing this morning to wish her a happy day. Because it's a Saturday, Louie doesn't have to work, so she has the whole day planned. But first, out to breakfast, so she had to get off the phone. We set a time to talk next week. When we do I'll ask how today's plan turned out. There is always a story.

Any Other Sunday: On Fathers

Any Other Sunday: On Fathers “I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.” ― Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul Father's Day. My day to reflect upon the fact that I've never turned any man into a father. Certainly not a daddy. Speaking strictly in scientific terms, Ralph is my father. I met him in 2010 just before Christmas. Well, "met." On Facebook. In 1969 he was my 16-year old mom's 17…