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Showing posts with label Mourning. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mourning. Show all posts

See You In The Funny Papers: Remembering An Old Friend

See You In The Funny Papers: Remembering An Old Friend Earlier this afternoon I was watching The Mentalist on Hulu, and Patrick said to another character, “See you in the funny papers.” I nearly gasped. Terence Burke used to say that.  Thing is, today’s heat and humidity had me thinking about Terence. “He would love this,” I thought. He really liked weather like this, it was cray cray. But to be thinking about Terence and then suddenly hear his favorite way to say “good bye”?  See you in the fu…

Trayvon Should Have Turned 31 Today

Trayvon Should Have Turned 31 Today I just don't think I will ever be over what happened to Trayvon. I remember it like it was yesterday. I was crying for weeks when the court let Zimmerman off, citing "Stand Your Ground." Like...I'm thinking about it now, and I'm still incredulous. He was just 17. He wasn't doing anything. He had Skittles and iced tea. He was walking home. And a monster stalked him and killed him. And a Florida jury found Zimmerman not gu…

Terence Burke Was An Awesome Human (1969 - 2024)

Terence Burke Was An Awesome Human (1969 - 2024) So we lost my good friend Terence last year. One August night he just quietly died in his sleep. We were all devastated. He was only 54. I can't say enough about how awesome Terence was, and that's both personally and professionally. I knew him a little through the music scene, then in 2007 I hired him at my workplace. He impressed the pants off everybody, was a fast learner and a superb employee. We became friends. We had many friends in…

Jane Goodall (April 3 1934 - October 1 2025)

Jane Goodall (April 3 1934 - October 1 2025) You guys, Jane Goodall died. "It doesn't take much to be considered a difficult woman. That's why there are so many of us."

RIP David Johnston

RIP David Johnston You guys. Mike Piehl posted on Facebook that David Johnston died yesterday. Oh man. I loved him.  I found him busking one day, and stood and listened. I was utterly captivated by his voice, his Dobro, his wild tumble of blond hair. I booked him in one of my showcases at the Lizard Lounge. He didn't have a CD yet. Not yet. When he made one, it blew me away.  You were the real deal, David. Following, my review from my archives (as Lexi Kahn)  and …

Three Real-Life Ghost Stories

Three Real-Life Ghost Stories When I was sixteen, we lived in the middle of the woods in a super tiny town in an 1860s house. The whole town was haunted, if you ask me. One day, my girlfriend Renee rode her bike over with her Oujia Board. Dead serious, we were meeting after school for this dead serious ghost session and we were both like, totally dead serious about it...that is how we sounded. Well, it was serious in the sense that we weren't merely fooling around with …

RIP Ric Ocasek

RIP Ric Ocasek "People tell me all the time that I look forbidding or aloof. That doesn't bother me much - I am fairly private, withdrawn, and... distant, I guess. But, um, I think that's okay." - Ric Ocasek  (March 23, 1944 – September 15, 2019)

Asa Brebner (1954 - 2019)

Asa Brebner (1954 - 2019) "Songs are just sort of feelings put into words, a marriage of the emotional and cerebral. And that's sort of the best thing you can do—express in words what you're feeling, hopefully in a way that's not too trivial or stupid." - Asa Brebner

Rose Marie: 1923–2017

 Rose Marie: 1923–2017 You guys, Rose Marie died.  I admit that I shed a tear or two tonight. I was way too young to "get" the Dick Van Dyke show when it was in re-runs on TV. But years later I found a connection with it, when I went off to college in New Rochelle.  I loved Sally, and I guess she was my first glimpse into "a TV writer," and she was a WOMAN. YES! Man, she was cool. So yeah, I got a little emotional when I heard of this fine funny lady…

Losing Our Heroes: Adam West, 1928 - 2017

Losing Our Heroes: Adam West, 1928 - 2017 Adam West was my Batman. His was the Batman that I knew first, so he's the one whose visage my mind's eye still summons whenever I hear someone say "Batman." In those days, Batman as a franchise was campy. It was a comic book lifted right from the cartoon pages and performed by people doing very silly things in a very serious manner. Decades before the franchise turned dark, Batman was good wholesome family fun. Just like Roger…

Black Lives Matter

Black Lives Matter Look, it's not up for debate. No "buts." Black Lives Matter. I cannot believe it's really necessary to explain that this awareness-driven slogan is not meant to imply " Only Black Lives Matter." That's not what it means at all. To take it as such is, frankly, a weird reaction and I have a few questions for you later. But first, let me be clear. Black Lives Matter means Black Lives Mattter  Too . THIS IS A NATIONAL CR…

Dirty Sweet 'N You're My Girl (Eulogy For An Awesome Chick)

Dirty Sweet 'N You're My Girl (Eulogy For An Awesome Chick) Genine was a high school friend. Brief, bright and deep, that was our love, from about mid-freshmen year to the summer of junior year. I wish I could find my goddamn yearbook so I could see what we wrote into the blurbs on each others' pages at graduation. Was it "remember when we..." and was it promises to keep in better touch? It's things like that you grasp for, when you find out a one-time friend is gone.

I Am So Sorry, Trayvon

I Am So Sorry, Trayvon That monster saw a black boy walking in his neighborhood, followed, taunted, confronted and shot that boy for no goddamn reason. George Zimmerman should be in jail. My heart, my soul, my mind all ache for Trayvon, his friends, his family and everyone in America whose expectations were dashed last weekend. George Zimmerman is a predator who hunted and killed a boy just because he thought he could get away with it, and now the law has shocked …